Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Growing, growing, growing!

I feel Mateo has grown so much this past week!! For starters, he is beginning to be more audacious about walking. He'll take the initiative to take several steps, but we have to remind him constantly to slow down because he just wants to take off! I'm really glad he's no longer in that contradictory stage of not wanting to even try walking on his own.

It's amazing his level of attention and retention. It's amazing to see him pick up on the things I do with him throughout the day. I guess it really scares me on some level to realize that it only takes him one time seeing something to imprint it on his brain. I had to get on a stool to reach for something in the kitchen and once I was down, he also tried to put his little leg on the stool. If he sees me sweeping, he runs to his room to get his own broom and imitates me. Or, if we introduce a new word via a picture in his books he'll remember it the following day when we "quiz" him.


And it's not just him copying me either. There's a little bit of that, but time and again he'll bust out with something that lets me know he's learning everything right now and he knows what it means and when to use it. For example, we often read to him from a series of books which feature a monkey (Popi) in different seasonal situations, hence the latest one was about Christmas. Before reading Popi, Mateo would not stand to have a hat on his head; as soon as it was on, he would pull it out. A couple of weeks ago when we were hit with the cold spell, I put his hat on and told him he would be like Popi. He thought about it a second, touched his head, smiled proudly and left the hat on!! Go figure!

He continues to show his emerging independence, his sense of right and wrong and his lack of self-control. He knows he is not supposed to throw his food, bottle or plate on the floor. But his impulse to do it is so strong that as he reaches for the plate or the bottle, he shakes his head no while smiling and then throws it on the floor. Of course, he then looks up to see if I saw what he did and what my reaction is. If it's not favorable to him, he has started hiding his face in his hands and lowering his head. He then waits a while before peeking through his fingers to see if I'm still upset with him. If I am still serious, he'll retreat to his hiding position and then look up after a while and offer me whatever might be on his tray - I guess, his way of saying, "Peace."

He continues to like to lift people's shirts to see their belly buttons. You can imagine that this habit of his hasn't been too well received by some moms who've been the victims of some unpredicted shirt lifting! During his music class he roams around the room and on two occasions, he has gone from behind and lifted moms' shirts. The first time he did it the mom was pretty upset (she's a bit on the fat side) and the second time, this past Friday, he was fascinated with the mom's behind, since she had a full color tattoo. He must have lifted her shirt and peeked twice before I noticed he was missing and was up to no good. I laugh about it now, but I hope he doesn't continue this promiscuous behavior later in life.
Lastly, he LOVES drawing and looking at his masterpieces, since I hang them right above his desk. He actually chooses the colors now, although it seems he just chooses whichever color is next in line. Unfortunately, he has also found much joy in drawing on the floor and all over his desk. I have to keep an eye on him at all times!! However, he's not big on getting his hands dirty (like his mom!!). Finger paints are okay for a little while because only his index finger gets dirty but anything else is a big no-no. He seems to occasionally enjoy getting his hands dirty, as in the pictures below, but he quickly asks me to wash them.
The poor little meatloaf has been sick since Sunday. He has some stomach virus again. It was pretty bad on Sunday but has since gotten progressively better, if not in the number of diaper changes, in his spirits and energy level. However, a happier Mati means that I've had to get creative and come up with activities for him to do at home since he's infectious. So I got the shredded paper out and he had blast playing with it. We've been drawing a lot also, and reading, reading and more reading!!

Sunday at the park, before the onset of his illness.

His energy level was remarkably low, but he had some fun on the swings.

Tuesday, January 23, 2007

Is he walking?



So I guess I got a little bit carried away when I said he was almost walking. The truth is he doesn't WANT to ...

We have stopped using the walker and have opted instead to go on walks just holding his hand. He does very well (balance wise) and manages to go for about a block at a time. We do have to stop, however, at every twig, branch, flower, leaf, or interesting piece of trash he sees along the way. He squats, inspects it, gives it to me, and we resume our walk. We also stop whenever he hears an airplane, sees a bird or car or to wave at some passerby. Just to go around the block takes us a good hour! These walks have given him a better sense of balance, but not of confidence in himself, which is what prevents him from taking off on his own.

What made me get carried away is that the other day, he decided to give walking a try, without me prompting him. He took off on his own and must have taken about 15 steps before falling on his belly. (He gets so excited that he wants to run!) I picked him up and he motioned he was ready for more. He did this about 4 times, but unfortunately, the place we were at was closing and we had to leave. He hasn't repeated this again. He will take 4 steps on his own here and there but that's it. I'm not too concerned about him being 14 months and not walking, but my back could use some rest!

Mateo's love affair with Noukie



For the first 14 months of his life, Mati was unattached and oblivious to any stuffed animal or lovey. Now, though, his horse (Noukie) is very dear to him. He hugs it, smooches it and caresses his ears and tail. I love this affectionate phase; it's so pure and innocent. It’s as if he’s caring for another creature for the very first time, and he gets so much joy out of doing so. Before going to bed, either for a nap or for the night, he has to have Noukie within his reach. While he sucks his thumb he caresses Noukie until he falls asleep. When he awakes and I got get him, he greets me with a big smile and hands Noukie over for me to kiss as well (but I have to return the horse promptly).


Finally, some endearing pictures of my two guys. Nico got home on Saturday and felt like listening to Guns-n-Roses. Mateo found the music soothing (???) and rested his head on daddy's chest, but got a kick out of Nico playing the air guitar!





Saturday, January 20, 2007

Our Trip to Mexico



Even though we had an early flight and Mateo woke up at around 5am, he was a very good trooper. Here he is with Tia Mumu at the airport, waiting to board.

Mateo tasted many new foods and fruits: here he is tasting one of his mom's favorite, the mamey!! YUMMMMMM! He also liked the tacos al pastor and de carnitas!





Thank you Tio Brandon and Tia Mumu for sending the pictures!



News about Mateo's walking adventures coming soon! (Hint: he is almost walking!)

Thursday, January 18, 2007

Welcome

It took us well over a year but we finally got our act together and decided to create a blog for our little guy. We hope to keep you all up to date on Mateo's latest and look forward to your comments!